Are You Ready For Back to Church Sunday?

The pandemic has demonstrated the value of social media and communication in general.

During this past year, yes I said a year, we have learned that we cannot just put a message in a bulletin or announce it on Sunday morning anymore. Instead, we have adopted multiple platforms to communicate with parishioners.

Depending on the specific needs of individual parishes these tools have ranged from snail mail, phone trees, email blast using tools like Mailchimp, Facebook pages, Twitter accounts, YouTube worship services, revamped websites, live streams, apps for smartphones and more. In short, these tools have been a godsend. They have allowed us the ability to maintain our communities while we are staying at home to flatten the curve and save lives.

But as vaccines begin to be rolled out with the government targeting September for population vaccination, we need to start thinking about how we shift and refocus those tools to begin looking outward after they have served us so well looking inward.

Simply put, Back to Church Sunday in 2021 may be the most important day in the calendar. Not just for drawing back together our own communities, but for active evangelism.

The world is starving for community, events to attend, people to see and activities to engage. Our fall ramp up this year will be the most important
of our generation.

There is an incredible opportunity that awaits us this year to offer events, social gatherings and of course in-person worship in the name of bringing people to Christ. To that end, we must start planning now and give some thought to how we will take all these new tools and turn them outward so that we can invite our mission fields and build community.

Building Relationships: More Than Hitting the “Like” Button: Huron Church News February 2021

If the pandemic is teaching us one thing, it is the importance of web-based tools in maintaining relationships.

This is true with family and friends as we once again are self-isolating through a second lockdown. This is also true for staying in touch with parishioners.

Many parishes have adapted and are making greater uses of Facebook Live, YouTube and Zoom. But to have that personal contact that we are missing from the lack of in-person services and coffee hours, phone trees have sprung to life again and the lost art of writing notes delivered through snail mail is back in vogue.

In short, digital tools must augment our relationships, not replace them with a click of a “like” button. Social media and digital platforms are meant to bolster relationships.

Tithe.ly Church Management Software is another tool in the modern parishes’ relationship-building toolbox. It is a robust database that tracks events, groups and even provides a place to store all those minutes taking at each committee meeting. Treasurers can track givings, generate tax receipts and produce monthly reports with ease.

But the most powerful tool for relationship building is the ability of the ChMS to generate various reports. Birthday and anniversaries are built-in reports generated each month to enable birthday or anniversary blessings mailed to parishioners. Custom reports for life’s big moments like baptism, weddings and funerals can also be created. The importance of receiving a hand-written note on the anniversary of the passing of a loved one, the baptism of a child or celebrating that first year of marriage goes so much further in relationship building than hitting the “like” button on Facebook.

Tips on Building Your First Church App: Huron Church News January 2021

The thought of building an app for your church probably scares most people, myself included. I have never built an app before. And if I am honest, I am not that techy of a person. In reality, I am an end-user. People build programs, and then I use the best program. It is very much the same as being a mechanic, finding the right tool for the job.

So, when I submitted my request form to Tithe.ly to begin the process of building All Saints’ first app for smartphones and tablets, both for Android and OS, I was nervous. Had I bitten off more than I could chew?

Thankfully, the process was easy. Some simple design questions and layout choices and the Tite.ly team took care of the rest. My role in the app rollout was entirely about what would serve the church the best, a functional design and what information I wanted the app to contain.

So here are a few tips to think about when preparing to build an app for your church.

  1. Don’t replicate your website. The website already has a mobile version. Think about how you want people to interact and what additional information you want to share. For All Saints’ we decided on an interactive prayer wall, an “events” button, a connection to our live stream, pictures of life at All Saints, a Bible tab and a tab to the revised common lectionary.
  2. Your app will also allow push notifications. Set a policy on how and when to use this feature. For example, snow event and worship is now cancelled is a good use. Birthday announcements are probably a bad use and will have people uninstalling your app.
  3. Link your app to your other social media accounts, whether YouTube, Facebook and Twitter. Create an eco-system where individuals can easily access all your online information.

For the first 20 years of this century, a website was one of your post important evangelistic tools. The next 20 years though will continue with people moving from computer screens to their smartphones and tablets.

Now is the time to get on Tithe.ly to launch your branded app.

Introducing a New All-In-One Online Platform for Churches: Huron Church News December 2020

Recently the Diocese of Huron has entered into a partnership with Tithe.ly
Tithe.ly is your all in one online platform for churches. Through Tithe.ly the diocese and its parishes will have access to an online giving platform, messaging service, apps for individual parishes, professionally designed websites for parish, Church management software (including accounting) and event coordination.

Tithe.ly is a powerful evangelism tool for the Diocese of Huron and individual parishes. The Diocese of Huron itself, Proud Anglicans Huron, All
Saints Waterloo, The Parish of the Blue Mountains, St. James’ Stratford, St. Paul’s Cathedral, St. Mark’s London and St. Thomas St Thomas are all first adopters of this new system.

Signing up to the system does not mean you have to have everything Parishes will be able to pick and choose buffet style the pieces of the platform they wish, such as professionally designed websites for $9 (US) a month or they could just opt for the all-access option.

Over the coming number of issues of the Huron Church News, I will be highlighting one part of the system.

The first place I want to begin with is websites. Tithe.ly has several professionally designed themes. Choose the theme that works for your parish. It is as simple as dropping in your images and updating the content.

In 24 hours, I was able to port images, select a few new ones, port content and customize my menus, fonts, buttons etc. All this sounds a little scary, but please rest assured if you can fill out a Facebook profile you can build a Tithe.ly site for your church.

Some of the features I find outstanding are the integration of my live stream from Facebook right onto my site, the plan your visit feature, so parishioners can reserve seats during this time of pandemic and a customized footer that will be available for the Diocese of Huron only, that will help to create and foster a diocesan culture and brand.

Stay tuned as over the coming month I learn to build my first app so that I can push content right to peoples’ phones, stay connected, and offer more opportunities for engagement with parishioners and seekers.

Audience Demographics: How to Reach Out to All Ages? Huron Church News November 2020

Who are you trying to reach on social media? As we start to think about setting budgets for 2021 where are you willing to invest in social to maintain and develop new connections?

One of the things that social media has allowed churches to do for the past decade is micro-target ads and messages to certain demographics. For giants like Facebook, this has always been their best marketing feature.

But microtargeting an audience on a single platform won’t be as effective for the next decade as different generations rush to different platforms. And each of the platforms has a unique way to shape content that helps churches tailor their message to the demographics they wish to reach.

Currently, 7 in 10 adults in Canada are active on Facebook, so this should still be the main platform that focuses much of our energy in driving content and conversations. Facebook is perfect for a few pictures, a microblog post and sharing upcoming events.

Yet, we should also be aware of demographic shifts in social. Facebook currently is skewing to a Baby Boomer audience. Millennials meanwhile prefer Instagram where they can develop Stories on their feed and even post short videos. Moving into this space will require photo and video editing software and a willingness to learn how to develop eye-catching content.

Gen Z or Zoomers alternatively are on Snapchat and TikTok. Snapchat offers similar features surrounding stories as Instagram, while TikTok is
a short video platform. Unlike Instagram, both of these platforms are populated by a younger generation that creates using their phones rather than professional cameras and editing software, so there is a lower
barrier of entry and it is perfectly acceptable to be campy.

To make your church stand out, save time, and enhance the experience, take advantage of each social media platform’s features to weave these different content styles together to reach out to all ages, or nations, and teach them all that Jesus has taught.

How Many Viewers do you Have: Making Sense of the Numbers: Huron Church News October 2020

As churches have rushed online many have been surprised at the number of views for worship services. Churches that used to boast 50-75 in attendance on Sunday Morning now have hundreds of views from a live stream or an uploaded video. And it would seem that we are reaching and
connecting with more people than ever before and many are celebrating.

I don’t want to be the one to deflate all the accomplishments of our churches and their online efforts. Yet to make sense of the number of views and all the data from digital platforms, there are some best practices.

First is to separate out the number of unique viewers from total views. This is easily done on YouTube, whose analytics will tell you precisely the number of unique views. This doesn’t separate out the number of times an individual may re-watch a service, but it does give you a precise number of unique individuals engaging with your content.

Facebook does not provide unique viewer numbers, unfortunately. But Facebook does provide the peak live viewers data during a live event, as well as 3-second viewers, 10-second viewers and 1-minute viewers.

You might have 133 3-second viewers, 84 10-second viewers and 50 1-minute viewers. Of the three numbers, the best to use for your data is the 1-minute viewers’ number as it reflects better the number of people who watched the service verse those who scrolled past on their feed.

Another data point to consider is your email analytics. Mailchimp provides wonderful analytics. You can see how many people opened a specific email and compare those results to your average open rate. It also provides which links were clicked on and who your top subscribers are. This provides great data in analyzing how many opened the order of service for any given Sunday.

Together using multiple data points I am able to better
ascertain a) which type of content is most effective in reaching beyond the church walls, and b) who many people I am effectively reaching.

This helps me better tailor my online offerings to meet the needs of those who are watching but also have an eye to broadening the reach of the Kingdom of God.

Church in a Bag: Sunday school bags delivered to six churches in the Deanery of Waterloo: Huron Church News October 2020

With the beginning of the new school year, the Deanery of Waterloo started Hello Church: Church in a Bag program addressing the needs of Sunday school children and their parents.

As we adjust to life in the pandemic, it has become clear that social distancing requirements will most likely keep many of our Sunday Schools
closed for the coming year.

Recognizing that parents with Sunday school-aged children might also stay away from church until Sunday school reopens poses a challenge for many parishes. But it also provides an opportunity for mission and evangelism and deepening people’s connections to their various churches.

With six churches participating with almost 100 bags created and delivered each week, the deanery looks to continue to innovate in this time of pandemic to bring the church to the homes of the faithful.

As a recipient of this program, Kelli Tigert says “it has made my daughter feel so loved as part of our church family to receive her bag and she is so excited for the next ones to come. Such a truly amazing and thoughtful idea.”

Just like meal kits that are delivered to the door, Sunday school bags are delivered each week, maintaining that connection with parents and kids
and demonstrating the kind of outrageous love of Christ.

Each bag contains a lectionary-based bible verse, a story and a craft. Everything needed for the Sunday school lesson is in the bag. Everything is supplied.

As a bonus, Hello Church provides 15-30 minutes of non-screen time activity for parents during the week. Knowing that Zoom fatigue is weighing heavy on parents, the program is designed to be offline and to add in discipleship and formation.

While the pandemic and the Amber Stage guidelines pose many challenges to returning to church it also has provided an opportunity for mission, discipleship and evangelism.

Welcome to the New Normal: Huron Church News September 2020

We have all heard the phrase, “The New Normal” thousands of times during this pandemic. It is almost ubiquitous at this point, but it still merits pondering what it means and implies for us all.

It suggests two things really,

1) this is new, it is something we have never experienced, and 2) it is also what we should expect going forward, it is now customary.

This should mean much to us in the church, that out of necessity have rushed online so that we could still provide good quality worship, a connection with God and community while isolated. It means what we are doing today will continue to be expected of us once we return to the in-person church in September.

There are many reasons for this, but chief among them is that not all our parishioners will feel safe returning to face-to-face worship. Some will have
underlying health conditions; others will be married to or are caring for someone who is considered high risk. The cameras will, simply put, have to keep rolling.

When we host Back to Church Sunday this year, there will be many regular attendees missing. Not because they do not want to be there, but because it is not safe while we are in the Amber Stage. Therefore whatever form of online worship you and your parish has chosen will have to continue, whether that be live streams, pre-recorded YouTube videos, and even digital coffee hour and Bible studies.

This “New Normal” will necessitate a hybrid model of digital and in-person church, community and worship. Each step of the way care will need to be taking to ensure no one is left behind when we re-open the buildings. The cameras and online engagement simply must continue and we will need to be more creative than ever before.

Welcome to the New Normal.

What To Do Now When The Plate Cannot Be Passed: Huron Church News June 2020

Social distancing has meant that the church has had to change and change rapidly. We are no longer able to gather each Sunday for worship physically. So many of us gather around our computers and watch live streams or prerecorded YouTube videos.

This has also meant that the finances of parishes have been deeply affected. Simply put, the plate cannot be passed. Many have chosen to take this opportunity to sign up to Pre-Authorized Giving, while others mail cheques for their offering.

Thankfully there are online solutions that can be quickly integrated with social and web platforms. CanadaHelps is a popular and easy solution as
a web portal for charities. In one quick stop, you can set up a page for your parish and integrate the online donation platform with your existing channels.

The downside to CanadaHelps is the fee structure. CanadaHelps applies a 4% fee to any onetime donation and 3.5% to any monthly donation. That means if I donate $100 to a church I will get a tax receipt for $100 but the church only receives $96.

PayPal Giving Fund is another solution. It is the charitable arm of Paypal. First, you will need to open a PayPal account for your parish and then link that with PayPal Giving Fund. Once approved, you can accept donations to your charity through PayPal Giving Fund at 0% fees, which means my entire gift goes to the charity of my choice.

It is a little more complicated to set up than CanadaHelps, but the time put in today will reap rewards in the future from the fee-less base service and the assurance that every cent goes to the parish and the building of the kingdom of God.

Do You Need More Proof? Social Media is a Primary Tool for Ministry: Huron Church News May 2020

In this new normal of living through a pandemic, our reliance on social media platforms has been vindicated. People use to see social media platforms, Facebook, Twitter and YouTube, as distractions, and not core to ministry. This all changed with Covid-19.

We now rely on Facebook, YouTube, Zoom and Hangouts for everything from connecting with parishioners, holding meetings to streaming worship
services. The most popular tools are Facebook for live streaming worship services and Zoom and Hangouts for video conferencing.

Many of our churches already had a decent Facebook presence. Being able to adapt quickly and make use of Facebook Live has allowed many of us to stream services and maintain our worshipping communities. This weekly opportunity for virtual worship keeps the body of Christ together when we cannot be together.

Zoom and Hangouts have also been instrumental in this new normal Zoom’s free account allows for up to 100 people on a video conferencing call, more than enough for parish council meetings. Zoom’s limitation is that it restricts group video calls to 40 minutes. To overcome this restriction you will need to sign up to plan. The most cost-effective is $20 a month, or $200 if paid annually.

Hangouts meanwhile are part of the Google Business suite that the Diocese of Huron has made available to every cleric for free. They host up to 100
participants and have no time restriction on video calls, so there is no need to upgrade the service. Hangouts, as part of the Google business suite ecosystem, integrate all the Google tools. You can present your screen or separate window and share documents live; a great tool for the treasurer’s report.

Regardless of the tool one thing as become clear, social media is no longer a secondary tool, but a primary tool to ministry. And while it is not for everyone, it has been a gift from God in maintaining our communities in this crisis and allowing us the opportunity to continue with ministry.

Think Before You Press the Send Button: Huron Church News April 2020

Web, social media and email offer us instant communication. The speed at which information travels today is unprecedented. And while misinformation travels faster and wider than the truth, the tools we choose to use can also have unintended consequences and send a message we may not have intended.

With that in mind, here are a few tips to consider before
sending an email, instant message or tweet.

1) Whether it is in the business world, in church land or just between friends never send a negative comment or reprimand electronically. It often inflames the situations. It is always best practices to sit face to face or at least pick up the phone.

2) The Internet is forever. Be sure of what you put out there. Ask yourself will you still be comfortable with what you have written in a week, month,
year or 10 years from now?

3) If something is on fire, or you need an answer quickly, don’t use email or instant messenger. Not everyone has access or responds instantly. If it is on fire, treat it as such and pick up the phone or arrange a meeting.

4) If an email chain has gone on for more than 4 or 5 replies this is a clear indication that it should have been a phone call or meeting. By the fifth reply, you should take the conversation offline.

5) Email, text and instant messenger simply are not personal. If you really want to connect with someone on an issue, reach out. Go see them or pick up the phone. Your point will have more impact. Your compliment or thank you will mean so much more. Or even better, take the time to write a
handwritten note.

The web has given us an amazing opportunity to share information and communicate instantly. That being said though, relationships are built upon trust. And trust is built when you take the time to pick up the phone rather than banging out an email or sending a tweet. It says we value each other.

There are times to step away from the keyboard, pick up the phone and engage directly. Doing so demonstrates the type of love that Jesus continually reminds of in His ministry.

Yellow Pages in a Digital Age: How to Claim a Listing for Your Church: Huron Church News March 2020

Whether it is Google, Facebook, Yelp or Bing, there are many modern replacements to the “yellow pages” that include churches.

Have you claimed these business listings for your church yet? It is simple, easy, and free. But more importantly, it allows you to manage your content and control the story you want to tell.

For instance, if you Google your church, you will see a business listing on the righthand side of the search result. There is likely a picture, location on Google Maps and reviews from people that have attended your church.

Your church is likely listed whether or not you have claimed ownership of it. This means other people are telling your story, influencing which images are seen first, and you are missing a chance to interact with people who review your church. These reviews can be a point of contact and give you valuable insight into how visitors experience your services and facilities.

Claiming listings allow you to update your business hours and communicate when the church is open. You can link directly to your website which makes it easy for people to learn about your church and all you offer in God’s name. And the listings can support each other. For example, Google pulls events from your Facebook page and can list them on when your church appears in the search results.

Each service has a number of tools and features that allow you to claim and manage your listing. From the images that appear, to what it says. Leaving it unclaimed means others will tell your story and it may not be the story you want to be told. By claiming the listing you can control your content and share the story you want to tell.

Short Videos, A Versatile and Engaging Format: Huron Church News February 2020

Heading into 2020 and keeping up with all the innovations in social media can seem daunting. Which emerging platform should the church engage with? How is it best to deliver our message of hope and salvation?

Before getting lost in Snapchat, TikTok or Lasso it is best to know where the overall trends are headed. And the biggest trend in social media is towards short videos, often known as ethereal content.


Video has become a major trend and the type of content people prefer to consume. In fact, it is what makes YouTube the second largest search engine in the world!


Videos are a versatile and engaging format that not only gives us a real-life picture of what is going on but also allows us to engage in a new and authentic way.

Because social media is designed for people to connect, share content and engage, videos are a perfect fit for this type of interaction.

The major platforms like Facebook and Instagram are pushing hard for videos. Instagram’s recent algorithm gives more preferences to videos when ranking content. And this is the impetus behind Instagram and Facebook stories, short videos that last for 24 hours and then vanish from the timeline.

And considering that each Christian is in effect a Brand Ambassador, or as we would normally say, an evangelist, reaching into your pocket and pulling out that phone to video part of your day, a thought about scripture or theology or even sharing devotionals is a great way to bring Christ out of the church and into your followers’ lives.

20 Years

It was 20 years ago…about now. Sometime after my birthday, but before December.

It was about now, 20 years ago that I stopped listening to the demons on my left shoulder and said yes to that lone voice on my right voice.

It is not always easy. It sometimes feels like that lone voice loses. But then before I can give in the hundreds of voice on my left, something distracts me, Hannah rushes in to tell me she loves me, the phone rings and something brings me back.

I know, I know. This is the work of the one on the right. He is, after all, a body. And the body has many parts.

I keep listening. Sometimes it is easy. Often it is not. But I listen. I strain to hear.

I pray for him each day. I pray that he wins. Because I need him too.

It has been 20 years.

Free Wi-Fi access in your church – plenty of reasons to provide it: Huron Church News January 2020

When I meet someone for coffee I rarely meet at Tim Horton’s. I normally search out a locally owned coffee shop rather than a chain.

There are a few reasons for this. One, I prefer to support a local small business; and two, they often have free Wi-Fi that is marketable better than Tim Horton’s.


Whether it is a coffee shop, on the train or at the hockey game, I am always in search of free Wi-Fi so as not to use up all my data on my cell phone plan. Free Wi-Fi means I can linger for a bit before or after my meeting and perhaps have a muffin or second cup of coffee and catch up on the day’s headlines. It also means that I can give the coffee shop a good Yelp, Google or Facebook review while I am relaxing.


Free Wi-Fi is not something we normally think to advertise or provide at our churches. After all, we don’t want people glued to their phones during the service or worse, during the sermon. We might even wish they would sit quietly and reflectively before or after the service praying.


Yet free Wi-Fi also gives the opportunity for the quick review on Yelp, Google or Facebook, which can drive more seekers to your door. It may mean that someone shares an Instagram story of their morning visit that inspires friends to come back to their faith. It may also mean a simple status update that is shared and liked and seen by hundreds.

In our rush to create spaces that are intentionally reflective and unplugged, we can also miss the opportunity to provide the tools for those that come to share their faith and their experience of our churches. And while we want people engaged in intentional prayer, we also want them to share all that God is doing in their lives. And free accessible Wi-Fi gives them that chance in the moment.

Phishing for your personal info: how to protect yourself: Huron Church News December 2019

Recently someone seeking to use the goodwill of the people of the Diocese of Huron cloned what appeared to be Archbishop Colin Johnson’s email and sent an email out the emails listed on the diocesan website. The person was seeking Google Play or iTunes cards. This is just one of many scams that are used to prey upon people.

There are a variety of ways to protect yourself from falling victim to such scams. Here are a few tips to help protect yourself.

1. Never send money to someone you have never met face-to-face. And don’t do it if it someone you know asking you to use a wire transfer, a prepaid debit card, or a gift card like iTunes or Google Play (those cannot be traced and are as good as cash).

2. Don’t click on links or open attachments in an unsolicited email. Links can download malware onto your computer and/or steal your identity.

3. Scammers are great at mimicking official websites, fonts, and other details. Just because a website or email looks official does not mean that it is. Even Caller ID can be faked. Always contact the company by opening a new browser window or by calling and speaking to someone at the organization.

4. Never share personal information with someone who has contacted you unsolicited, whether it’s over the phone, by email, on social media, even at your front door.

5. Always check the email address or URL to see it is legitimate. Case in point, the recent email sent to the diocese was not from a diohuron.org address but was from “Most Reverend Colin R. Johnson “anastasiapeckins35@gmail.com”

The World Wide Web, much like the world itself is a wonderful place full of interesting information and great people. But much like a market in a tourist centre, where the best deal is available only to you and pickpockets lurk around the corner, we need to take a few steps to protect ourselves.

What have you shared: a short reflection on public theology. Huron Church News November 2019

By this everyone will know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another. John 13:35

By the time you are reading this the Federal election is over. Either Mr Trudeau won a second mandate, a majority or minority or Andrew Scheer was able to turn the tables and is now on his way to 24 Sussex Dr.

Perhaps Jagmeet Singh or Elizabeth May hold the balance of power? One never knows what role the Bloc will play, and they may have more influence and seats than the NDP and Greens. Regardless, the election is over and we can all go back to our regularly scheduled lives.

But I wonder what would happen if in light of the Gospel and the verse above we were to go back through our Facebook and Twitter feeds, what would we find?

Would we find good factual information shared or memes insulting the leaders? Would we find the positive proposals highlighted or another string of insults demeaning Trudeau or Scheer? Do we condone behaviour that belittles or do we rise above it and show God’s love to the world?

Public theology is the engagement and dialogue with the larger society by the church and individual Christians. It seeks a fair and just society for all by engaging issues of common interest to build the common good. We, therefore talk with society not just to society. And no time is better for this to happen than election season. And nothing is quite as public as social media.

So what have you shared? Have your posts and comments reflected love for one another?

I wonder if I am ready to stand before God with the resume of my social media posts in my hands. Would they convict me of love for one another or indict me as someone who put aside the Gospel to fling a little mud during a bitterly fought election campaign?

Perhaps a good exercise is to go back, read what we shared and ask ourselves if by sharing it I made the Gospel known? Did others see Christ through our shares and retweets? The world is watching and we should always be deeply conscious of the responsibility each of us as the baptized share in making Christ known through word and deed. Even and most especially, during election seasons.

How to Generate the Best Welcome Package. Huron Church News October 2019

The welcome package is a sure-fire way to help newcomers learn more about your community. They identify the newcomer at coffee hour so your volunteers can introduce themselves and answer any questions. And most of all, they leave an impression in the mind of the visitor.

To ensure that impression is positive here are a few tips to help you generate the best welcome package for first-time visitors.

Most of the content needed for the package should already exist on your website: who you are, what worship is like on a typical Sunday morning, what life at your parish includes.

Simply re-purpose this content into print format, preferably into a set of brochures. The brochures need to be appealing. Not everyone is a graphic designer or has one who can volunteer their services. This is why I make
judicious use of templates.


Both Apple Pages and Microsoft Publisher have professionally designed templates included with the software. Apple has over 100 + new brochure designs that can be downloaded for an extra 9.99 at the Apple Store and Microsoft 365 has an equal number available for download for your favourite Microsoft program (Word, PowerPoint, Publisher) at templates.office.com


If you wish to break away from the templates that come with the software, both lucidpress.com and canva.com (https://www.canva.com/create/brochures/) are excellent resources that give you access to fresh designs. Canva also allows you to match your design with Facebook banners images if you are planning an event. A bonus.

All of these brochures just require that the text is changed and new images added in the placeholders. They are designed to be drag and drop so that non-profits who cannot employ a graphic designer can still have professionally designed brochures.

Once the brochures are finished and printed in colour, I like to finish it off with a fridge magnet and a pen, all branded and all from Vista Print. Pop
in some seasonal appropriate candy and then you have a welcome package that is professional and informative about the church.

Such a subtle way to leave an impression, but one that will leave a powerful impression that will have that first-time visitor returning again and again.

Let people feel their engagement is making a difference, Huron Church News September 2019

Back in the April 2019 issue of the Huron Church News, I wrote about Facebook’s built-in tool for polls as a means of driving engagement.

Far too often churches use Facebook as a broadcast medium instead of building those peer-to-peer relationships that make social media so powerful.

The idea is simple. Run polls asking simple questions like, for Lent, do you give something up? Or take something on? Advent, blue or purple?

The natural extension of running these polls is translating the data that you collecting on your congregation from social media to everyday life. For instance, you might have a parish dinner in your calendar. This is a good opportunity to run a poll, or to ask the simple question, what is your favourite pie? The responses will provide you with data about the type of pie people who will attend your dinner prefer. During the parish announcements on Sunday morning when advertising the upcoming parish dinner mention the poll and that you will have said kind of pie for dessert. If you employ a screen for announcements, include a screenshot. Nothing builds relationships better, faster and deeper than people feeling heard, even if it is just about pie.

This same technique can be expanded beyond silly questions about food. Asking your congregation about their favourite bible verse will give you great data to build up future bible studies. Asking people to name their favourite hymn or song makes music planning throughout the seasons that much easier. Asking people about their hidden talent can lead to discovering all kinds of skills in the parish to further the kingdom of God.

Moving from social to real life is a great way to continue to build engagement on your social media platforms. And nothing makes people valued and will drive traffic back to your social media platforms than people feeling as their engagement is making a difference in the life of the church.

“Blessed are your eyes, for they see, and your ears, for they hear.” (Matt 13:16)

Genesis 21:1-7

The Lord dealt with Sarah as he had said, and the Lord did for Sarah as he had promised. Sarah conceived and bore Abraham a son in his old age, at the time of which God had spoken to him. Abraham gave the name Isaac to his son whom Sarah bore him. And Abraham circumcised his son Isaac when he was eight days old, as God had commanded him.Abraham was a hundred years old when his son Isaac was born to him.Now Sarah said, ‘God has brought laughter for me; everyone who hears will laugh with me.’ And she said, ‘Who would ever have said to Abraham that Sarah would nurse children? Yet I have borne him a son in his old age.’

Promises, promises. How often in life have promises been given to only to be broken? We are entering election season here in Canada with the upcoming federal election is set for October 21, 2019.

No doubt the politicians will be making all kinds of promises. The promise trackers have been released on the current government. In it, the Liberal government was found to have kept 90% of its 2015 promises to the electorate. In reality, that is a bit of a spin. They kept 50% of their promises, partially keep 40% and broke 10%. All in all, a good record when it comes to politicians and promises.

Going forward, all the parties will be dangling money and promises in an attempt to win your vote. If a change in government occurs, then be ready for the tried and tested line that the fiscal books were in worse shape and now we can’t deliver on our promises.

This got me thinking about promises. Humans use promises to solicit votes, cut deals and strike bargains. This is in great contrast to God, who promises come not from an attempt to extract something from you. Rather they come from a place of faithfulness to a relationship between creator and created.

After many years, Abraham and Sarah continued to trust God that God would be faithful and keep His promise. And when Abraham was 100 years old, Sarah gives birth to Isaac, a son. Promise kept.

Maybe the politicians will tell you that they too need many years in power to be able to deliver on their promises. But God’s promises are not about cost/benefit analyses or an attempt to buy your vote. God’s promises are always about being faithful, even when it seems impossible to do so. This is something we discover in our relationship with God. Even when it looks like death has won, and the promise will go unfulfilled, God finds a way.

Because neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Promise made. Promise kept. 

Like, Comment or Share your church’s social media content, Huron Church News June 2019

Just how important is each user? How important is each like, subscription or share? Why put so much effort into social media, websites and ethereal content?

About the best answer, I can give is to point to Metcalfe’s law.

Metcalfe’s law states the effect of a social network is proportional to the square of the number of connected users of the network.

In other words, if your page has 50 likes, it has an effective reach of 2,500 people. Add just one more person to the network and your reach increases to 2,601. One user translated to 101 more people in the network.

And as you can see this will grow exponentially. Each person added to a social network, such as a church’s Facebook page, opens hundreds of new
possibilities to reach out with the Gospel message and leverage growing networks.

Coming off the heels of synod and the bishop’s charge of being sent into the world, a renewed commitment to social media as a means of evangelism is something every parish should revisit and prioritize.

Over the coming summer months, it is the perfect time to prepare for a robust fall launch and social media engagement. Ask parishioners to like your church’s Facebook page, leave a review and purposefully engage with content.

Metcalfe’s law applies to not only the number of likes on a page but engagement per content. So if a post is like by 10 parishioners then it has an effective reach of 100 people.

If we take the bishop’s charge to heart and take a few seconds to like, comment or share your church’s social media content then we can begin to apply Metcalfe’s law to not just the number of likes of the page, but to each post we make.

And this would mean that each day, with each post, we all take part in the apostolic ministry of being sent into the world.

Friends on Facebook: Less is more! Huron Church News May 2019

In Lent, we learn to live simply so others may simply live. We eat less, shop less and even take social media breaks. But we don’t seem to apply this same idea of less being more to our friends’ list on social media.

There have been countless studies that have demonstrated that 150 people are the maximum ideal size for a community. This is known as Dunbar’s number, which suggested a cognitive limit to the number of people one can maintain stable social relationships—relationships in which an individual knows who each person is and how each person relates to each other. Past 150 it becomes tenuous to maintain meaningful relationships with individuals.

And while social media allows us to break many rules there really must be a cap to the number of “friends” we have on Facebook if we truly want to have meaningful relationships where our lives become a light for others.

It is tempting to say yes to that “friend” request from the person you lost track with from high school twenty years ago. You might even chat once or twice, but quickly they just disappear into an endless stream of noise in our news feeds.

My rule of thumb for Friends on Facebook is simple. Would I have dinner with them? And, would I look them up to invite them for dinner? If the answer is yes, I accept the friend request, if the answer is no to either one, I let it go.

I also use this same rule to periodically go through my friends’ list and bring down the number to a manageable level where I get to interact with each person on my list.

In a world where Likes and Shares dominate we tend to think in numbers and the bigger the number the better. And while Lent is over, spring though is upon us and perhaps weeding our social media gardens should be in the offering. After all, trimming the excess will allow our other relationships to flourish more deeply.

Facebook’s built-in tools for polls, Huron Church News April 2019

Most churches use Facebook as a broadcast medium. We announce special worship services, dinners and lecture series. And follow up to all events is a must, whether a quick post or a few pictures.


But the main issue regarding churches and Facebook is engagement. Simply put, we struggle with engagement and two-way dialogue and prefer to use Facebook as a broadcast vehicle.


In my experience, most social users who post on behalf of churches are looking for the right meme to drive likes an shares, or the perfect quote from the right celebrity pastor, or the best article on church growth that will inspire the congregation and seekers to post replies and engage in dialogue. And while this is indeed possible, it is also not realistic, at least not regularly.


I have found the best way to encourage dialogue and engagement with a church’s Facebook page is to seek feedback. There are a variety of ways feedback can be solicited. The easiest is the poll.


Facebook has built-in tools for polls. Simply using those tools can help drive engagement with your page and therefore with your church.
Examples of simple polls are:

Do you give something up for Lent? Do you take something on?

Advent: Purple or Blue?

White after Labour Day? Yes or no?

Such simple questions, but questions that are designed to elicit a response from your congregation and from seekers alike. It is a low threshold of engagement but one that brings users back repeatedly. And each time a user comes back, there is another chance to take that engagement from social to analogue and fulfil the Great Commission.

Building a welcoming website, Huron Church News March 2019

I have said it many times: a professionally designed and developed website is no longer an option for the church. It is a communication tool that is often overlooked, simply forgotten, or the old website from 2002 is left un-updated.

But with only two in ten Millenials attending church, while over 66% of Millenials still believe in God, we need to ask ourselves how to reach them with the radical love of God and invite them to join us on the transformational journey of faith.


The answer is, just as it was for St. Paul, is to be where they are, and that is the web and social, our Agora.


Now, we may not all be comfortable with a powerful web design tool like WordPress that powers over 60 million websites worldwide, nor do we have someone in the congregation able to build us a website that inspires and attracts. Luckily, there are many tools to help the novice build out an attractive, informative site as the new front door of the church.

Squarespace.com, Weebly.com, Sitebuilder.com and Wix.com are all simple tools to help any novice and social media user to build an attractive
welcoming site. The professionally designed templates allow the user to simply input their content and quickly publish a world-class site.


The only downside to these tools are that much like Facebook and Twitter, you do not own your content. If you stop paying our cancel the service you will lose all your data, pictures and history, just as if you deleted your Facebook account. So back everything up.


If your church decides to go the way of a web builders’ service this is something to alway keep in mind. Yet, it does make it an ideal solution for the small local church who doesn’t have the resources or volunteers to build and maintain a robust website.

Top five social media trends for 2019, Huron Church News February 2019

It is the end of 2018 and the beginning of 2019. Which means the end of year list are making the rounds and the pundits are prophesying lists of things to watch for in 2019. Not to be outdone, I thought I would get in on the game with 5 social media trends for 2019.

  1. Live Video Feed. 80% of users prefer to watch a live feed than read a long blog post. For the church, this means posting a video feed of your service or sermon will gain you more attention than posting the text on your website. The most popular platforms for live video feed is Facebook Live by far, but also include Instagram and Periscope on Twitter.
  2. Paid advertising on social. Currently, Facebook has over 6 million advertisers and Instagram surpassed 2 million in 2017. Paid advertising on social allows you to micro-target to your desired audience through identifying location, age, gender, languages spoken and keywords, such as church, Jesus Christ, Easter Service, etc
  3. Ephemeral Content, otherwise known as stories. This content is short video clips or posts that disappear after a period of time, usually 24
    hours. The reason why shortlived content is so popular is that people feel as though it is more authentic compared to traditional sponsored advertisement. It’s an opportunity for you to post several times throughout a day or a week without spamming your followers’ news feeds.
  4. Referral traffic and organic reach are declining for businesses as social platforms change their algorithms to priorities family and friends. While this may be bad for businesses as social shifts back to personal, it is great news for organizations like the church. Now more than ever, every congregant can take up the great commission through their social channels and share content that spreads the gospel and have a greater reach.
  5. The growing importance of personal branding to organizational branding. We are the face of the church and each of us has a brand that is tied to the church. Putting a human face to the brand of the church organization humanizes the institution and garners more trust and trust is instrumental in building relationships and relationships are key for church growth.

These five tips for social in 2019 should help yourself and your congregation make that next leap to engaging seekers and driving that traffic to your front doors on Sunday morning.

Genesis 20

From there Abraham journeyed towards the region of the Negeb, and settled between Kadesh and Shur. While residing in Gerar as an alien, Abraham said of his wife Sarah, ‘She is my sister.’ And King Abimelech of Gerar sent and took Sarah. But God came to Abimelech in a dream by night, and said to him, ‘You are about to die because of the woman whom you have taken; for she is a married woman.’ Now Abimelech had not approached her; so he said, ‘Lord, will you destroy an innocent people? Did he not himself say to me, “She is my sister”? And she herself said, “He is my brother.” I did this in the integrity of my heart and the innocence of my hands.’ Then God said to him in the dream, ‘Yes, I know that you did this in the integrity of your heart; furthermore it was I who kept you from sinning against me. Therefore I did not let you touch her. Now then, return the man’s wife; for he is a prophet, and he will pray for you and you shall live. But if you do not restore her, know that you shall surely die, you and all that are yours.’
 So Abimelech rose early in the morning, and called all his servants and told them all these things; and the men were very much afraid. Then Abimelech called Abraham, and said to him, ‘What have you done to us? How have I sinned against you, that you have brought such great guilt on me and my kingdom? You have done things to me that ought not to be done.’ And Abimelech said to Abraham, ‘What were you thinking of, that you did this thing?’ Abraham said, ‘I did it because I thought, There is no fear of God at all in this place, and they will kill me because of my wife.Besides, she is indeed my sister, the daughter of my father but not the daughter of my mother; and she became my wife. And when God caused me to wander from my father’s house, I said to her, “This is the kindness you must do me: at every place to which we come, say of me, He is my brother.” ’ Then Abimelech took sheep and oxen, and male and female slaves, and gave them to Abraham, and restored his wife Sarah to him.Abimelech said, ‘My land is before you; settle where it pleases you.’ To Sarah he said, ‘Look, I have given your brother a thousand pieces of silver; it is your exoneration before all who are with you; you are completely vindicated.’ Then Abraham prayed to God; and God healed Abimelech, and also healed his wife and female slaves so that they bore children. For the Lord had closed fast all the wombs of the house of Abimelech because of Sarah, Abraham’s wife.

This is the second endangerment of the matriarchy or the second time Abraham tries to pass off his wife as his sister because he fears for his and not her’s safety. Clearly, the Father of Faith hasn’t learned to trust God yet. Which makes calling him the Father of Faith a bit off the mark, at least for now.

Sarah has yet to give birth to Isaac, so perhaps we shouldn’t read back knowledge we know but has yet to transpire in scripture. Doing so allows us to be disappointed in Abraham as he doesn’t seem to live up to his namesake. Maybe, rather, we need to look at Abraham as the evaluation of faith, rather than the Father of Faith.

And doesn’t that make Abraham more relatable? Personally, this thought of the Evaluation of Faith speaks to all of our natural human conditions. We must learn to trust God, just as we learn to trust parents and loved ones. When that trust is broken we become jaded and our hearts harden. But when trust is maintained the relationship grows deeper, the bonds strengthen and the length we are willing to go for each other grows.

So why wouldn’t that be our reaction to God as well? As God keeps His promises, our trust in God continues to grow. God has made a covenant with Abraham to make him the father of many nations and to protect his people. So, of course, God would protect Sarah. Even from Abraham’s own actions of self-centeredness.

Abraham is learning and growing into the person he will become, the Father of Faith. But that doesn’t happen in a vacuum. Rather that happens through relationship, through learning to trust and through experience. And really is that any different for us?

We learn and grow through relationships, intimacy and experiences. We come to know who we can trust, who will disappoint us and who would use us. And it is through these lived experiences that we come to know that God does indeed keep His promises and remains faithful to us regardless of the things we do.

So like Abraham, we are not perfect. We come to church, a hospital for the broken so that our relationships with each other and God can be mended and we made whole again. It is in worship and spending time with God we come to know the depth of His love for all of His creation and it is through placing our trust in God we come to know the abundant grace that is freely offered and that never dissapoints.

So let’s not be too hard on Abraham, he too is still learning too trust.

Genesis 19:30-38

Now Lot went up out of Zoar and settled in the hills with his two daughters, for he was afraid to stay in Zoar; so he lived in a cave with his two daughters. And the firstborn said to the younger, ‘Our father is old, and there is not a man on earth to come in to us after the manner of all the world. Come, let us make our father drink wine, and we will lie with him, so that we may preserve offspring through our father.’ So they made their father drink wine that night; and the firstborn went in, and lay with her father; he did not know when she lay down or when she rose.On the next day, the firstborn said to the younger, ‘Look, I lay last night with my father; let us make him drink wine tonight also; then you go in and lie with him, so that we may preserve offspring through our father.’So they made their father drink wine that night also; and the younger rose, and lay with him; and he did not know when she lay down or when she rose. Thus both the daughters of Lot became pregnant by their father. The firstborn bore a son, and named him Moab; he is the ancestor of the Moabites to this day. The younger also bore a son and named him Ben-ammi; he is the ancestor of the Ammonites to this day.

How do we ‘other’ people? How do we create a narrative that people of different colour, ethnicity or religion are not fully human?

These questions are the question propagandists have ponder for centuries. The Nazi’s treatment of the Jewish people in propaganda was to other them, make them less than human so the population would not empathize with their plight.

The same is true today of Donald Trump’s administration towards people of colour. Undocumented aliens. Illegal aliens. Caravans of migrants bringing disease, drugs and violence. Old tropes, but designed to help the American people feel less sympathy for the children ripped from mothers’ arms and put into cages like they were animals.

But Donald is not the first, nor is this a 20th and 21st century phenomena. It stretches all the way back to the Old Testament. Abraham has been promised that he will have a son and his descendants will be like the stars in the sky, seemingly endless.

To create a people and an identity you also have to create a narrative of people who are not linked to you. And this is precisely the story we find here. No sooner does Abraham bargain with God for Lot’s life, but Lot leaves his uncle Abraham. Lot separates himself from Abraham and so separates himself from the descendants of Abraham who will be so numerous and blessed by God.

By doing so, the foundational narrative of the Moabites and the Ammonites, at least according to Abraham, will come from acts of incest and drunkenness. This is juxtaposed with Abraham and his covenant with God.

Abraham, a man of faith, choosing by God to have descendants so numerous as the stars in the skies, versus the neighbouring tribes of Moabites and Ammonites, descendants from incest and drunkenness.

Propaganda as a means to other people seems clear to be as old as scripture itself. Either you are with us, or against us. This seems so limiting to a limitless God.

Let’s Meet Up: Cutting Through the Noise of the Internet, Huron Church News October 2018

The Internet is a vast place. There are literally millions of websites and constant traffic. Social media is no different. Facebook, for example, has 2.23 billion monthly active users, of which 1.47 billion log in daily. There are 100 million daily Twitter users who post 500 million tweets.

So whether it is an outreach event, parish supper or Bible study in a bar, cutting through the noise of the Internet to get the message of your church to a seeker in your specific mission field can seem like a monumental task.

Thankfully there are tools that can help. Meetup.com is one such tool. Meetup.com operates as a website and mobile application that allows its users to schedule events using a common platform. These events are then shared with users who have created profiles and named the topics of interest to themselves. Meetup then filters all the various “meet-ups” to show users the various groups in their area that are of their self-described interest. Users then are able to join the group, your group, and hear directly from you about your next event through an email in their inbox.

The service is relatively inexpensive at $9.99 a month for a group under 50 people, and $14.99 for an unlimited group. And you are able to sign up for the service for one month only for a one-off event, or monthly for recurring events like your church pub theology night.

This simple tool allows you to advertise directly to the people in your mission field who have self-identified as interested in your type of event. This type of micro-targeting allows parishes to cut through all the noise of Facebook and Twitter and get your event directly to seekers and help you share the message of Jesus Christ.

If we want to reach people – Go where they are, Huron Church News September 2018

When Paul on his many journeys would arrive in a new town, he would make his way to the Agora, the
marketplace. It was here in the centre of Ephesus and Corinth that he would begin preaching and teaching the people about Jesus Christ.

Paul knew that if you wanted to reach the people, you simply had to go where the people are. You cannot wait for them to come to you. And this remains true today. The difference between today and when Paul was on his evangelism mission is the Agora.

Gone are the town squares. They have been replaced by the square spaces of our computer screens. This new Agora, much like the old town square is ripe with opportunity to make Jesus known, but it also ripe with
danger. It is a good idea to protect oneself when using social media so as not to be discouraged in our mission.

I am sure many of us have seen memes we are encouraged to like and share. Some are innocuous, but many are phishing exhibitions. A good example is the one designed to entice individuals to share their answers to security question.

Normally these are laid out with a word or picture for your birth month and you will be asked to put together your month with the name of the street you grew up on to get your superhero name, for example.
Another example is the year you were born and your first pet’s name to get your rock n roll stage name.

There are many variations of this type of phishing exhibition, and far too many to describe. So it may not be just one meme that causes you to give away the answers to your bank or Facebook’s security questions, it may have occurred over the course of a few months or years.

This does not mean that we should shy away from social media and sharing our faith and the story of Jesus with the world. Rather, it simply means that we should be careful of the information we post and share with the world, just as we would be careful in a crowded marketplace to not leave our expensive camera on a table unattended.

The fact that we don’t shy away from the dangers of the world, but protect ourselves accordingly, means we can still live the Mark of Mission to proclaim the good news of the Kingdom of God and make Jesus known to a world that is desperate for a message of love.

Genesis 19:1-11

The two angels came to Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gateway of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to meet them, and bowed down with his face to the ground. He said, ‘Please, my lords, turn aside to your servant’s house and spend the night, and wash your feet; then you can rise early and go on your way.’ They said, ‘No; we will spend the night in the square.’ But he urged them strongly; so they turned aside to him and entered his house; and he made them a feast, and baked unleavened bread, and they ate. But before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house; and they called to Lot, ‘Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, so that we may know them.’ Lot went out of the door to the men, shut the door after him, and said, ‘I beg you, my brothers, do not act so wickedly. Look, I have two daughters who have not known a man; let me bring them out to you, and do to them as you please; only do nothing to these men, for they have come under the shelter of my roof.’ But they replied, ‘Stand back!’ And they said, ‘This fellow came here as an alien, and he would play the judge! Now we will deal worse with you than with them.’ Then they pressed hard against the man Lot, and came near the door to break it down. But the men inside reached out their hands and brought Lot into the house with them, and shut the door. And they struck with blindness the men who were at the door of the house, both small and great, so that they were unable to find the door.

The depravity of empire is something we are currently experiencing while watching the fall of the great American Empire. Casting back to a fantasy about the glory days of the United States of America, Donald Trump seeks to create nostalgia for a better time that can be recaptured if the people are just willing to follow him down a dark path.

With growing income inequalities that have exploded since the neo-liberal ideology burst onto the scene in the 1980’s with Ronald Raegan, Margaret Thatcher and Brian Mulroney, the gulf between the haves and have-nots has grown. Income has stagnated for most but the 1% who continue to see their incomes and wealth grow. Housing has simply become unaffordable to most and that dream of your own home disappeared in the economic meltdown of 2009.

Since the 1980’s, American consumerism has gone from consuming the world’s goods and services to now consuming itself. The American Empire is literally tearing itself apart with school shootings, daily gun violence and a political system meant to castigate all opposition rather than encourage dialogue and collaboration.

The thing is, none of this is particularly new as we see from our passage from Genesis. Empires rot at their core, even when founded upon the highest ideals. And as individuals seek the next sensation they stoop to even lower levels. Even the offer of two young virgins to rape is not enough to satiate the men of Sodom anymore. They require the two strangers staying in Lot’s house.

Lot for his part is far from a hero, after all, he just offered his two daughters for gang rape. Yet, this is the place that angels of the Lord have come after Abraham had bargain so convincingly with God. If 10 righteous men could be found God would spare the city. Alas, even Lot is suspect as to his righteousness.

Yet, even in the depths of all the bad decisions that Lot must make, the angels of the Lord rescue him from the mob. They blind the men of Sodom and Lot’s life is spared.

Is this a story of redemption? Is this a story of Judgement and punishment? Or is this a story that reminds us even in the midst of all the bad decisions we make while trying to good, God is still with us?

As we watch the fall of the Great American Empire, I pray it is the latter.

Waterloo in El Salvador: democracy in action (Huron Church News May 2018 Edition)

From March 4 to March 11 a group of parishioners from All Saints’ Anglican Church in Waterloo, Ontario travelled to El Salvador to attend Foundation Cristosal Global School and immerse themselves in the Salvadorian culture.

The purpose of the mission trip was to educate the participants about democracy and human rights in the Salvadorian context, the history of the church in the public square and how church participation in the public square can be activated back home in Canada.

In the midst of the trip, an opportunity presented itself for the group to put into action their learning and participate in the International Women’s Day march in San Salvador. All Saints’ joined approximately 5000 people in what can only be described as one of the liveliest marches the group participants have ever attended.

The march went down Alameda Franklin Delano Roosevelt and ended at Monumento al Divino Salvador del
Mundo (The monument for Christ, Saviour of the World). It was here that speakers told stories and shared human rights violations of women in El Salvador.

For instance, 17 women have been incarcerated for the violation of El Salvador abortion law. Abortion is strictly prohibited in El Salvador and carries a life sentence. These 17 women did not have abortions
though, they had miscarriages, and one had a stillbirth. The courts, however, had found them guilty of not doing enough to protect their unborn children and considered the miscarriages and stillbirth as abortions. Many of these women have been imprisoned for over a decade with another 20 years on their sentence remaining.

All Saints’ spent time with partner communities in experiential learning moments of democracy in action. Rather than have an NGO, like Cristosal, dictate to a community their needs, Cristosal works with the communities to empower them in their local environment. Partnerships in this context look much different, but they do respect the autonomy of the communities and create more holistic relationships of mutual transformation.

The time spent in El Salvador was formative and fruitful for All Saints’. The country, in many ways, is scripture stories come to life.

For the missionaries, it was a walk to Emmaus. During our time with the people of El Salvador, we were mutually transformed. It is the hope of All Saints that this transformation begun in many miles from home will find life in the greater community as we look to serve and witness to Jesus Christ in Waterloo and around the world.

The path to reconciliation: Anglicans and Lutherans walk together in Waterloo (Huron Church News May 2018 Edition)

Throughout this past Lent, Anglicans and Lutherans in the Waterloo area joined together to walk the path of reconciliation.

Each Wednesday, All Saints’ Anglican Church, St Columba Anglican Church, Christ Lutheran Church and Mount Zion Lutheran gathered together for a speaker series focused on reconciliation and the Truth and
Reconciliations Commission ’s call to action #59.

The program began by building an understanding of the Doctrine of Discovery, UNDRIP (United Nations Declaration of the Rights of Ingenious Peoples), the Indian Act and the Residential Schools system.

Our first speaker, Bishop Mark MacDonald, brought insights from Indigenous Spirituality to Christian Theology. The Good Walk or 4 Directional Thinking reminded us that we should experience the Gospel truths from all sides, as one experiences a mountain from all sides when they walk around it.

At the core of Bishop Mark’s message is the principle or idea of relationships that are formed through time spent in community. Bishop Mark encouraged all to participate where they can in a blanket exercise, visiting the Six Nations and the Woodland Cultural Center or attending a Pow Wow.

Next, Rev. Tom Patterson from the Diocese of Huron Bridge Builders reminded us of the importance of discovering both our differences and similarities as we come into relationship. The Bridge Builders do this with balanced representation on the working group while being attentive to not force that relationship or for settlers to take over.

Rev. Rosalyn Elm helped the participants to decolonize our Western theology and use insights from Indigenous Spirituality to create new insights into scripture. Western Theology tends to look from the Fall onward, seeing humanity as sinful, while Indigenous Spirituality looks back to the Garden, proposing
that we are living in the Garden of Eden as it is not just spiritual but real.

Through sharing our sacred stories we are also able to better understand our own stories by receiving a new lens in which to experience scripture. Rosalyn poignantly highlighted this with a telling of the Haudenosaunee creation story and using that to interpret Genesis.

To close out our time in Lent together, Deacon Scott Knarr shared tangible examples of reconciliation
in action. Deacon Scott has helped develop and participates in a music camp on the Six Nations, which operates both summer camps and Tuesday after-school programming. (musicforthespirit.ca)

Scott brought into focus for the group the importance of relationships, of walking reconciliation with one person at a time and that reconciliation cannot be rushed or we will just tip the canoe.

The thread that connected all the various topics and speakers was relationships. The path to reconciliation can only be travelled by mending the broken relationships between settlers and
First Nations. This was a powerful insight as we are reminded in the season of Lent that it is through Christ that our broken relationship with God is reconciled and our sins are forgiven.

This story was picked up and reprinted in the ELCIC Newsletter. It can be viewed here.

Looking for a better review of your church? You need Yelp! – Huron Church News November 2017

At the recent clergy conference in Niagara Falls, the guest speaker Nadia Bolz Weber spoke about the distrust of institutions that is prevalent among Millennials.

She proposed that the locus of authority has shifted from institutions, like the church, to individuals. As such, individual opinions and reviews can have a bigger and greater impact than any institutional message. This is why Yelp reviews, according to Nadia, are key to the Great Commission and church growth.

While I was a little distressed to learn many in the room didn’t know what Yelp was, her talk was an insightful way to consider the church’s role in a society where the Internet has democratized authority.

Gone are the days when we can control branding and messaging through advertising alone. Now anyone can leave a review of your church on social media channels or review sites such as Yelp and drive seekers to – or from – you.

This new locus of authority means that before stepping into your church, potential newcomers will Google you and read the reviews, if there are any. Having none is better than having negative reviews, but it may also indicate an inactive community and does little to encourage seekers to visit.

Who can leave a review of your church on Google, Facebook and Yelp? Anyone, including you. You are, after all, the biggest cheerleader or evangelist for your own church. Taking the few minutes to rate your church on Facebook, Google and Yelp and leaving a few comments about you like and find interesting can go a long way to encourage a seeker to take that next step and give you a try on a Sunday morning.

We no longer have to wait for the institution to provide the new marketing campaigns or billboard ads. The power to reach the locus of authority is now in your hands and on your keyboards. Take a few minutes, write a review and live the Great Commission.

Cloud Based Note Keeping, Huron Church News October 2017

I have a habit that may horrify some of you, and to which others will relate. I write in, dog ear, and highlight my books with complete abandon. Whenever I find a good quote, illustration or sermon idea, I keep a note of it. Then, months later when I want to reference those notes, I find myself staring at a bookshelf full of equally marked up books trying to remember which book holds that one quote that would bring out the Gospel message on a particular Sunday.

To combat my office floor from being littered with books every time I desperately try to remember that one specific sermon quote or illustration I have adopted cloud-based notekeeping. Evernote is my platform of choice, but Google Keep, and One Note are also great options and provide similar functionality.

Evernote is a cloud-based cross-platform application. It syncs across multiple devices so I can take notes on my phone or tablet and access them later from my laptop. I can create a text note, an audio note or even snap a quick picture. I can include attachments to my notes and even can set a reminder to alert me when the note might be relevant. Say, the beginning of Easter, or before the sale ends on the item I just snapped in a store.

Being able to store and search my notes easily gives me the freedom to take notes wherever and whenever I want without worrying about losing them or remembering to look them up when necessary. And, since my notes are on the cloud, I can share them with people; from sharing service ideas with clergy colleagues, to a shopping list with my wife. As much as I love post-its, they just can’t compare.

Evernote certainly hasn’t stopped me from marking up my books, but it has helped me organize my thoughts, sermon illustrations and seasonal ideas in a quick searchable notes that I can quickly access wherever I am. And most importantly, it has helped me avoid stubbing my toes and tripping over yet another pile of books in my office.

What is your Because? Huron Church News January 2016

When was the last time you spontaneously tried a restaurant? With no recommendation from a friend or a review read on Yelp. You just saw a sign and said, “What the heck, let’s give that a try?”

If you are like many Gen-Xers or Millennials, cold calls to restaurants are not common. Decisions to go to a new restaurant are based on recommendations from trusted friends or online reviews.

That being the case, why do we expect people to walk into our churches simply because we have a pithy quote on our sign? True, we will, on the odd occasion, have a cold call from a seeker or someone new to town, but these occurrences are far from the norm.

What’s far more common is a friend or colleague recommends their church to a friend, just like a restaurant. They do so because they know why they love their church and can articulate exactly what their church does well and what they enjoy about it. It could be a good youth group, a strong music program or a preacher fantastic at liturgy and inspiring and relevant in sermons.

Whatever the reason, if parishioners know exactly why they love their church, they will be able to clearly articulate their feelings with family, friends or colleagues.

So when people ask me to help them promote their church, the question I always start with is this: What is your “because”? Why would someone come to your church? Can you or your parishioners finish this statement quickly and concisely: “You should come to my church because . . .”

If you or your parishioners can’t finish this statement to briefly and effectively describe your church, any outward communication is premature.

If people can’t articulate their experience with a friend, then we shouldn’t expect hundreds of people to flock to our churches on Bring a Friend Sunday or Back to Church Sunday.

The best and oldest form of evangelism is still our parishioners’ social network. But to leverage these networks, whether online or off, we must first inspire our parishioners, educate them, and, most of all, give them permission to go out into the world and tell people that they love their church because . . .

Looking to reach fans of The Simpsons, Huron Church News November 2015

Reaching beyond your immediate circle and social networks online can seem daunting. Stretching the already limited outreach budget to put it into something like an online advertising campaign can be risky, with no promise of a return on your investment.

But with some well-placed, well-timed ads, traffic can be driven to Facebook pages, Twitter accounts, websites and, yes, even to your front door without breaking the bank.

Facebook ads can be targeted by postal code, location, ages, genders, interests, or other demographic dimensions. You can use these segments to advertise directly to potential youth group members or users who share an interest in the subject of your next event.

Running a Simpsons-themed Bible study? Target fans of The Simpsons.

Want to maximize your Easter or Christmas attendance and reach new families? Target your event advertisement to local Christians and Anglicans.

As a bonus, ad traffic can lead to organic traffic. Each ad-driven “like” on your parish’s Facebook page increases the possible reach of each post or event to a larger network of people. The points of entry into your parish community increase exponentially.

Google Ad Words is another avenue to reach people outside of your network with well-timed advertising campaigns. Easter and Christmas campaigns, for example, can create a point of entry for those looking to try a new church or come back to church on a major feast day. You can target these ads similarly to Facebook ads.

Highly targeted ads can mean you spend money to deliver the message you want only to the people you want, whether it is Google or Facebook. It can cost as little as a few dollars a week to advertise special events to a specific audience, or you can create a more general ad to reach people in your area searching for more general terms such as “Church Service” or “Church, insert your city here”.

A small investment in a well thought-out advertising strategy for your online presence can have profound and dramatic effects on your parish’s reach and growth potential in spreading the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Christ Has No Body

Teresa of Avila (1515–1582)

Christ has no body but yours,
No hands, no feet on earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which he looks Compassion on this world,
Yours are the feet with which he walks to do good,
Yours are the hands, with which he blesses all the world.
Yours are the hands, yours are the feet,
Yours are the eyes, you are his body.
Christ has no body now but yours,
No hands, no feet on earth but yours,
Yours are the eyes with which he looks compassion on this world.
Christ has no body now on earth but yours.

Genesis 18:1-15

The Lord appeared to Abraham by the oaks of Mamre, as he sat at the entrance of his tent in the heat of the day. He looked up and saw three men standing near him. When he saw them, he ran from the tent entrance to meet them, and bowed down to the ground. He said,‘My lord, if I find favour with you, do not pass by your servant. Let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree. Let me bring a little bread, that you may refresh yourselves, and after that you may pass on—since you have come to your servant.’ So they said, ‘Do as you have said.’ And Abraham hastened into the tent to Sarah, and said, ‘Make ready quickly three measures of choice flour, knead it, and make cakes.’ Abraham ran to the herd, and took a calf, tender and good, and gave it to the servant, who hastened to prepare it. Then he took curds and milk and the calf that he had prepared, and set it before them; and he stood by them under the tree while they ate.

They said to him, ‘Where is your wife Sarah?’ And he said, ‘There, in the tent.’ Then one said, ‘I will surely return to you in due season, and your wife Sarah shall have a son.’ And Sarah was listening at the tent entrance behind him. Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in age; it had ceased to be with Sarah after the manner of women. So Sarah laughed to herself, saying, ‘After I have grown old, and my husband is old, shall I have pleasure?’ The Lord said to Abraham,‘Why did Sarah laugh, and say, “Shall I indeed bear a child, now that I am old?” Is anything too wonderful for the Lord? At the set time I will return to you, in due season, and Sarah shall have a son.’ But Sarah denied, saying, ‘I did not laugh’; for she was afraid. He said, ‘Oh yes, you did laugh.’

HospitalityHospitality. Abraham makes room for his three guests who come to his tent, whether travelling from afar of simply appearing as they walk up to Abraham’s tent. We are not sure if the three guest were angels, God himself, perhaps in the form of the Trinity. Although this is all just sheer speculation and anachronistically reading Christian theology back into a Jewish texts.

What is of note in this passage is the act of hospitality. Abraham does not hesitate to offer his home and his best food for guest he knows not. Abraham does not know if these strangers who have appeared by his tent are important. He does not know if they are from another tribe, or perhaps includes princes or kings. Abraham simply offers hospitality to those that have come to him. He welcomes them into his home.

This is a powerful message. The early church would take this passage as significant in how we are to welcome strangers. And it will inform generations of hospitality providers in the church. Yet, that is getting very ahead of ourselves I think. In the course of the narrative that is unfolding on the pages in front of us and what we have read, Abraham is beginning to demonstrate the faith for which he will become famous.

It must have been an incredible act of faith to practice this kind of radical hospitality. No names, no introductions. Simply, here is my home, here is my food, you are welcome to share. And in the sharing Abraham and Sarah receive a message. That they will be rewarded for their faith and hospitality. They will have a son for nothing is impossible with God.

What would it look like if in Christian nations, blessed with such abundance, we were to share with the rest of the world and offer this kind of radical hospitality, and to develop and hold the same faith as Abraham: that in offering hospitality to strangers we too would be blessed by God?

Perhaps the thought makes you laugh as Sarah…

Quick to Criticize, Slow to Praise

I, like many of us, have been quick to criticize and slow to praise. It is easier to tear something down rather then build something up. And my recent adventures in home renovations have taught me precisely that. I am not sure why we do this as human beings? But I found myself doing it far more often then I wanted.

Over the past 6 months or so though I have been more proactive about praising more and criticizing less. I have found it immensely helpful to remind myself that while I may not agree with the decisions being made by others, that their hearts is in the right place. There are after all very few truly “evil” people in the world.

For instance, I may not agree with decisions my bishop makes, or votes taking in deanery council, but reminding myself that all these people want to see the Kingdom of God grow and are just doing their best has helped me temper my criticism.

What has also helped me temper my criticisms of others is reminding myself that it is easy to criticize, but then asking myself, “what am I going to do about it?” I can, after all, join in a “bitch” session, or I can be willing to help others and offer constructive solutions. This has helped me not just to be more effective in church land, but to be happier.

This, of course, is not just a realization I have had on my own or a moment of self actualization. It is born of a couple of things. It is a process by which I am becoming more the person God wants me to be. Allowing the Spirit of God to work me over has had a dramatic positive effect. Also, having good friends has been key. Not just too debrief and complain with but also challenge me to be a better priest, and a better person.

So a big shout out to Kevin Dixon and Bill Ward. You guys have helped make me a better person, at least 8 times out of 10. (sorry Billy, couldn’t resist)

Social Media Etiquette, Part 2

Etiquette is important. And there are all manners of etiquette lessons that need to be learned in life. Which fork to use, or how to dress for certain receptions and such. Well the same is true for our interactions online, and maybe even more profoundly because our actions online will be seen and read by many. They, in essence, represent not only us, but also the church.

I would like to offer a few more useful tips from the original piece I wrote in November 2011. This of course is not an exhaustive list, and I am sure I will add to it again in the future. The following three suggestions are meant to build a strong foundation for social media etiquette and our online behaviour as church.

What to post

  • Do I want my boss to see it?

    If the answer is no, it is best not to post it. A good practice is to assume you are at a cocktail party and your boss is next to you. He/she may not be listening to your conversation, but then again, they just might be. Treat your online postings in the same manner.

  • Do I want my mom to see that picture from my vacation?

    Sometimes we share content that may be humorous, or we tell a story or leave a comment. But imagine if that comment or picture was seen by your mother? Do you really want to have to explain the concept of body shots to your parents?

  • Can you say what you write from the pulpit?

    This is a good rule for clergy. Remember your parishioners are watching, reading and digesting what you post. And while you may think your privacy settings keep people from seeing certain content, it is best to not risk that content getting out and being shared.

What You Say Follows You

  • The Internet has a long memory.

    What you write today may come up on a Google search easily accessible by present and future employers. You are leaving an impression, an impression for your readers today, but also for the future. It is common practice, even in the church, to Google a candidate for the rector’s position and go through your timeline. Imagine the new congregation you wish to lead reading your comments and discerning whether or not they would want you.

Dealing With Comments

  • Not everyone is going to like what you post/share.

    But deleting comments is the equivalent hanging up on a person or slamming the door shut in their face. It reflects upon you and your ministry. Sure, never feed the troll or engage with someone who is spewing hateful speech. You can delete those comments. But to delete someone’s comment who doesn’t agree with you or challenges you is not only rude, but shows a lack of understanding of social media. If it is not a behaviour you would do face to face, then don’t do it online.

  • There is a fine line between public and private.

    But if you are using your personal account for the church in any manner, then realize you have invited people into your life and your actions can have consequences. One of those consequences is that you are representing the church when you delete, censor or silence comments you don’t like.

Invest in Canvas Shopping Bags

Okay I bought a couple. But here is the thing, I have a drawer full of canvas shopping bags. My biggest problem is that I need to keep these shopping bags in the car rather then at home, because I stop at the store on the way home.

But I do get the idea, I am just always bad at implementing this idea.

Introduce yourself to a neighbour

Total fail.

I never got out and knocked on a door. I was hoping that when Carolyn and I went our for a walk the new neighbour would be out and I could just walk over and say hi and introduce myself.

Well, I guess the point of the challenge was for me to be more active then reactive.

Lesson learned.

Pray the paper, Pray for the news events of the day

Is it wrong that I was praying that Rob Ford was NOT in the news today? Maybe. But I did pray the news today and with earnestness.

A Ukrainian soldier was shot and killed in Crimea. The Ukrainian President called this action the first move into the military phase of the occupation of Crimea.

I’m scared. I’m scared we have learned nothing of war and we are on the pathway to another massive war involving super powers and European powers colliding.

So I prayed for the soldiers soul, and for peace. I will continue to pray for peace and for calm in my frightened heart.

Call an Old Friend

Does IM on Facebook count? Did I cheat? I am not sure, but I did reconnect with an old friend I had not spoken to in a very long time through Facebook. That is why it is there right? To touch base with people from years ago you don’t speak to anymore and share cat pictures?

The thing is while it was good to reconnect, I also realized I am no longer the person I was or they knew. I have changed so much over the past number of years I scarcely know who I am anymore. This has just reinforced for me some thoughts I have been having for a while now.

If I am no longer the person I used to define myself as, then who am I? Am I clay, continually being folded into something new? Will I never be able to point to something, a generalization as to who I am?

There is something freeing about not being the person you thought you were and something completely terrifying about not knowing who you are.

$5 gift cards

Stopped at Timmies this morning. Grab my coffee and breakfast sandwich and picked up 2 gift cards load with $5 on them.

I am not planning to be downtown today so I will just keep them on me and that way I will be ready when I meet a brother or sister that is in need of some food and a little help.

Tis proactive planning to help a random stranger is great.

Give $20 to a non profit of your choice

Saturday’s Lenten challenge from St Andrew Memorial Anglican Church is to give $20 to a non profit of my choosing. Sure it could be easy to slip another $20 in my envelope on Sunday, but I think that will defeat the purpose of this challenge.

A couple of months ago I reached out to a friend, Megan Walker, for help in preparing a report for the bishops on human sexuality, the over sexualization in our culture, gender stereotypes and the pervasiveness of porn. What I learned while writing that report is that I am privileged, or I should say how privileged I am.

While I cannot deny my privilege as a white man, I can choose to use it, even if only in a small way to make a difference. I do not want to give a hand up to people, rather I want to get under them, to give them shoulders to stand on. The difference in approach is about getting into muck with others, walking in solidarity and accompanying others in their journey.

So I will continue to look for ways to walk in solidarity, but in the context of the Lenten Challenge I decided that the best place I could donate my $20 was to the London Abused Women’s Centre.

Genesis 16

Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, bore him no children. She had an Egyptian slave-girl whose name was Hagar, and Sarai said to Abram, ‘You see that the Lord has prevented me from bearing children; go in to my slave-girl; it may be that I shall obtain children by her.’ And Abram listened to the voice of Sarai. So, after Abram had lived for ten years in the land of Canaan, Sarai, Abram’s wife, took Hagar the Egyptian, her slave-girl, and gave her to her husband Abram as a wife. He went in to Hagar, and she conceived; and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked with contempt on her mistress. Then Sarai said to Abram, ‘May the wrong done to me be on you! I gave my slave-girl to your embrace, and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked on me with contempt. May the Lord judge between you and me!’ But Abram said to Sarai, ‘Your slave-girl is in your power; do to her as you please.’ Then Sarai dealt harshly with her, and she ran away from her.

The angel of the Lord found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, the spring on the way to Shur. And he said, ‘Hagar, slave-girl of Sarai, where have you come from and where are you going?’ She said, ‘I am running away from my mistress Sarai.’ The angel of the Lord said to her, ‘Return to your mistress, and submit to her.’ The angel of the Lord also said to her, ‘I will so greatly multiply your offspring that they cannot be counted for multitude.’ And the angel of the Lord said to her,
‘Now you have conceived and shall bear a son;
you shall call him Ishmael,*
for the Lord has given heed to your affliction.
He shall be a wild ass of a man,
with his hand against everyone,
and everyone’s hand against him;
and he shall live at odds with all his kin.’
So she named the Lord who spoke to her, ‘You are El-roi’;* for she said, ‘Have I really seen God and remained alive after seeing him?’* Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi;* it lies between Kadesh and Bered.

Hagar bore Abram a son; and Abram named his son, whom Hagar bore, Ishmael. Abram was eighty-six years old when Hagar bore him* Ishmael.

Abram and Sarai have no children, even though God has promised that his descendants will be like the stars of the heaven. Rather then trusting in God they decide they will fix the situation. They will assert their power in the situation and mold and shape the situation to their desires.

Sarai convinces Abram to take her slave girl, Haggai, as a wife. Of course this was in the time when men did have multiple wives so this really shouldn’t shock us that Abram has more then one wife. Monogamy is a rather modern invention and the sacrament of marriage did come into institution until the 12th century.

What is more shocking about this passage is the desire for humanity to control all situations, impose their will upon it and upon others in an attempt to get their desires, their greed fulfilled.

Abram then “goes into” Haggai, she does conceive and Sarai becomes jealous. She sees the way that Haggai looks at her and no doubt looks at Abram. This creates a division between Abram and Sarai. In an attempt to mend fences and control the situation Abram tells Sarai that Haggai is her slave girl, treat her as you will. And not surprisingly she treats her badly, oppresses her and drives her away.

It is in the desert, by a spring, that faith in God’s providence is restored. And Abram, God’s chosen, his wife Sarai, does not restore it or any of is kin. It is restored by a slave girl, a concubine, abused and cast off, alone in the desert and pregnant.

God’s preference for the poor, the oppressed and the marginalized is clearly displayed in this chapter of Genesis. It is to the oppressed that the angel of the Lord appears. It is the oppressed that God seeks to deliver. Not the leader of the household, Abram, not his wife Sarai, but God goes to be with a scared, lonely, hurt and abused pregnant slave girl.

SALVADORAN ARCHBISHOP OSCAR ROMEROI am preparing to leave again in a few days for El Salvador. I will once again walk in the steps of Monsenor Oscar Romero. I will once again experience one of the birthplaces of Liberation Theology. And I will once again be molded and shaped, have my expectations turned upon their heads and constantly be surprised by God’s preference for the poor. It will be in El Salvador that I will once again experience the presence of God.

“There are many things that can only be seen through eyes that have cried.”
-Oscar Romero

Closing the doors

Church DoorsThere is no denying it. Churches are going to close. Christendom is no more and there is a shift happening in society. And while closing churches will become a necessity in the coming years as the size of congregations continues to dwindle, or the very cost to keep the building open and in good repair just no longer is reasonable or a good use of the resources that we have been entrusted with, I would like to offer something for us to think on.

The church long before it was associated with a building was simply a gathering of the people. The church always was and still is the people. Our understanding of what it means to be “church” ought to have grown out of our understanding of what the word truly means.

Church, or Ekklesia, is God’s call out to the world, literally. Ekklesia parsed out gives us:

Ekk- out or out of
Kaleo- I/you/we call

Literally Ekklesia is God’s call out to the world. The assembly that Ekklesia came to be known as, the church, represents all those joined in baptism to God, participating in the Missio Dei, the mission of God, by taking up a baptismal life and following the teachings of Jesus Christ.

That life in Jesus Christ does not stop when the church’s doors are closed on Sunday or permanently. Rather that life propels us forth from the font to the world. The people still gather, in person, in homes, virtually and where needed. Prayers are still offered and God is still worshipped and glorified. The poor are served and the kingdom of God is realized a little more each and everyday. Church has not ended because the doors are closed because church is more than bricks and mortar.

We cannot close the church, because we cannot close people. Buildings close, churches don’t.

Why Going to Church Matters

I firmly believe that there are three main aspects to human life, and each of these aspects needs to be cared for and nurtured. And together when they are cared for, human beings live healthy and happy lives. These three aspects are:

1) The Physical

2) The Mental

3) The Spiritual

Now there are two ways that these aspects may be treated in life. We can choose to treat them acutely, as in when something goes wrong, or we can treat them in a preventive manner.

Case in point is the physical. Preventive care would encompass things like exercise, going to the gym and eating a healthy and balanced diet. By doing so our bodies develop stronger immune systems capable of fighting of various sicknesses and helps to prevent diseases, like heart disease and strokes.

Now many chose instead to treat their physical selves acutely. They have a bad diet, little to no exercise rendering them winded from climbing stairs and a sedentary lifestyle. When they become ill, they go to the doctor and receive medication. Or poor diet can develop diabetes in the individual, at which time medication is required. Just a couple of examples of acute care.

A healthy active lifestyle prolongs life and quality of life. Simply put caring for ones physical self is important. We feel better when healthy, happier and have a better quality of life, both now and in the long run.

The same is true for the mental. There are many aspects to the mental. There is mental illness, but there is also exercise of the mind. I will treat each of these separately, for they are truly distinct, even though one may dovetail into the other.

Accumulation of stress and not having a release for that stress can often cause depression or a tendency to lash out at people and see in them projections of stress not yet dealt with. We can read into situations things that do not exist, or even see innocent comments as personal attacks.

Having the means for coping with high level of stress and decompressing after high levels of stress is a must for a healthy and happy mental life. The high levels of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder being reported by returning soldiers from active theater is an indication that proper and timely decompression from stressful events is not taking place.

Yet caring for our mental wellness is not just a matter of treating mental illness. It is preventive also. Like the physical we can either treat the symptoms acutely when they arise or we can engage in a regiment of preventive care. Here education is key.

Stretching past ones assumptions and beliefs and having those beliefs and assumptions challenged so that we can see our prejudices is key to helping us have a happy healthy life. This allows us to come beside our neighbor and to understand their perspective.

It should be noted that understanding does not mean agree, simply put, it means if we can see another’s point of view, we have opened our mind to new possibilities of understanding and friendship.

Caring for our mental well being, exercising our minds and allowing sufficient downtime after stressful encounters is key to a happy and healthy life.

Finally the one aspect of our lives that in our western post modernist secular world that is often over looked is the spiritual.

I often run into people during the course of my duties as a priest who tell me they are not religious, but spiritual. When I press them on this, in what do they do to exercise their spirituality I am often met by blank stares and stumbling answers like, “I try to be a good person”.

By not caring for our spiritual selves, we open up ourselves to the need to have this aspect of our lives treated acutely when crisis happens. And if there is one guarantee in life, we will encounter crises. A regular regiment of spiritual development needs to be engaged if we are to care for this third aspect of our lives.

Which is of course is one of the many reasons I believe in the value of church. Church may seem antiquated and out of touch with today’s world, but I firmly believe church will give you the exercise your spiritual selves needs to be strong and healthy. It provides preventive care in the same manner as preventive care surrounding our physical and mental lives, which helps us to be happy and healthy.

It is hard in the moment to see how hitting the treadmill or de-briefing an incredibly stressful event will help you years down the road. And it is equally hard to see how attending church will help you years down the road as we confront our own mortality, aging process and growing through our many encounters and crisis in life.

But exercising our spiritual lives is key. It is the third leg of the stool upon which sits a healthy and happy life. And when lacking a regiment of exercise for our spiritual lives church in many senses becomes for us our gym.

So grab a Bible, a Torah, a Koran or other sacred text. Join a church and let the spiritual sweating and exercise begin.

Proof Texting

Stretching all the way back to Augustine in the fourth and fifth centuries the very idea of proof texting, the idea that any one verse or group of verses ought to be literally understood or to be interpreted in isolation from other scriptural texts, was seen as poor practice, poor interpretation, poor scholarship and poor biblical study.

Augustine calls the practice sinful.

Augustine and the early church fathers believed that isolating chapter and verse was detrimental to the understanding of scripture in general, and in particular could lead to the abuse of scripture and God’s word. They proposed and taught that when reading and applying scripture to life’s many situations one ought to never isolate chapter and verse. Instead one ought to interpret scripture as a part in relation to the whole.

The danger lies in taking isolated passages as God’s law, immutable and unchanging. Yet, this is not Christian practice as evidenced from our early beginnings and the writings of St Paul. Christians believe that a new law and new relationship with God was inaugurated with Jesus Christ. It is for this reason that Christians do not practice the 613 Torah laws.

As Christians we speak of the New Covenant, instead of the Old Covenant.

This of course does not stop proof texting.

Both the Old Testament and the New Testament are often abused in this manner. Many individuals use chapter and verse from the New Testament as means of providing illustrations in isolation of what we ought to do, or what God expects of us.

For example, an often cited passage against homosexuality is Romans 1:26-32

For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error.

And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind and to things that should not be done. They were filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, covetousness, malice. Full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, craftiness, they are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, rebellious towards parents, foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. They know God’s decree, that those who practice such things deserve to die—yet they not only do them but even applaud others who practice them.

In isolation this passage seems to condemn homosexuality and when this passage is lifted out of the whole of Paul’s letter to the Romans, the New Testament and the bible, it would indeed be pretty damning. Yet if we continue to read we discover that Paul says something else entirely:

Therefore you have no excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others; for in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things. (My emphasis)

Judging others is equated with all other sins against the Father. Paul’s point seems to be that God is the only judge and when we, humans, judge one and another we sin.

Therefore one could conclude that the point Paul is trying to make is about judgment and not about homosexuality. Perhaps homosexuality is simply a means to illustrate how the sin of judgment is most heinous.

Now I realize that providing an example of proof texting surrounding homosexuality is a charged issue and I suspect I will receive a few comments on it, so let me approach it from a slightly different perspective and with a different issue.

Genesis 9:24-27 says:

When Noah awoke from his wine and knew what his youngest son had done to him, he said,
‘Cursed be Canaan;
lowest of slaves shall he be to his brothers.’
He also said,
‘Blessed by the Lord my God be Shem;
and let Canaan be his slave.
May God make space for Japheth,
and let him live in the tents of Shem;
and let Canaan be his slave.’

The descendants of Canaan, Africans, were subject to slavery and the slavery was defended as God’s punishment according to scripture. Slave traders, the American South and even the British Empire relied upon this interpretation to maintain the slave system, isolating this passage from the rest of scripture. Ignored were the passages where God sets his people free, reconciles his people and leaves the temple and Holy Jerusalem to be with his people in slavery and exile.

Proof texting, as we can see, is very dangerous and can lead to all kind of abuses of God’s word including maintaining systems of oppression, domination and violence, like chauvinism, sexism, patriarchies, nationalism, militarism and such. Isolating chapter and verse creates and breeds misunderstanding about what we do as Christians and what God wants for us. And this misunderstands then continues in the world with people we seek to engage with and bring the Good News of Jesus Christ too.

Here I am thinking of Richard Dawkins at the moment and many in the new atheist movement. Many times I encounter people, atheists of this particular variety, who engage me in conversations in an attempt to educate me as to what I believe (somehow I didn’t know before but luckily they have arrived to let me know). Often passages, chapter and verse, are quoted. The claims of course are proof texting claim.

The argument goes that because the bible is the word of God, whether literal or inspired, depending on your theological bent, that every phrase and every word in the bible is somehow immutable and unchanging, even though it has been translated many times. Yet, if one is to read the whole and not the part, we see that God does in fact change his mind many times; He remembers his people and inaugurates a New Covenant through Jesus Christ.

Proof texting, whether used as an attack against Christianity or used by Christians themselves to justify actions or behaviors creates misunderstanding and is very dangerous. And as St Augustine stated so many years ago, it is poor scholarship, poor biblical studies and a sin.

So the next time that someone quotes a passage to you, chapter and verse, stop, and ask what the next verse is and if it might be important also.

Priestly Duties

What should a priest be?
All things to all –
male, female and genderless
What should a priest be?
reverent and relaxed
vibrant in youth
assured through the middle years
divine sage when ageing

What should a priest be?
accessible and incorruptible
abstemious, yet full of celebration,
informed, but not threateningly so,
and far above
the passing soufflé of fashion

What should a priest be?
an authority on singleness
Solomon-like on the labyrinth
of human sexuality
excellent with young marrieds,
old marrieds, were marrieds, never
marrieds, shouldn’t have marrieds,
those who live together, those who live
apart, and those
who don’t live anywhere
respectfully mindful of senior
citizens and war veterans,
familiar with the ravages of arthritis,
osteoporosis, post-natal depression,
anorexia, whooping-cough and nits.

What should a priest be?
all-round family person
counsellor, but not officially because
of the recent changes in legislation,
teacher, expositor, confessor,
entertainer, juggler,
good with children, and
possibly sea-lions,
empathetic towards pressure groups

What should a priest be?
on nodding terms with
Freud, Jung, St John of the Cross,
The Scott Report, The Rave Culture,
The Internet, the Lottery, BSE, and
Anthea Turner,
pre-modern, fairly modern,
post-modern, and, ideally,
Secondary-modern –
if called to the inner city

What should a priest be?
charismatic, if needs must,
but quietly so,
evangelical, and thoroughly
meditative, mystical, but not
New Age.
Liberal, and so open to other voices,
traditionalist, reformer and revolutionary
and hopefully, not on medication
unless for an old sporting injury.

Note to congregations:
If your priest actually fulfills all of the above, and then enters the pulpit one Sunday morning wearing nothing but a shower-cap, a fez, and declares: ‘I’m the King and Queen of Venus, and we shall now sing the next hymn in Latvian, take your partners, please’. –
Let it pass.

Like you and I,
they too sew the thin thread of humanity,
Remember Jesus in the Garden –
beside Himself?

So, what does a priest do?
mostly stays awake
at Deanery synods
tries not to annoy the Bishop
too much
visits hospices, administers comfort,
conducts weddings, christenings –
not necessarily in that order,
takes funerals
consecrates the elderly to the grave
buries children, and babies,
feels completely helpless beside
the swaying family of a suicide.

What does a priest do?
tries to color in God
uses words to explain miracles
which is like teaching
a millipede to sing, but
even more difficult.

What does a priest do?
answers the phone
when sometimes they’d rather not
occasionally errs and strays
into tabloid titillation,
prays for Her Majesty’s Government

What does a priest do?
tends the flock through time,
oil and incense,
would secretly like each PCC
to commence
with a mud-pie making contest
sometimes falls asleep when praying
yearns, like us, for
heart-rushing deliverance

What does a priest do?
has rows with their family
wants to inhale Heaven
stares at bluebells
attempts to convey the mad love of God
would like to ice-skate with crocodiles
and hear the roses when they pray.

How should a priest live?

How should we live?

As priests,
transformed by The Priest
that death prised open
so that he could be our priest
martyred, diaphanous and
matchless priest.

What should a priest be?
What should a priest do?
How should a priest live?

By: Stewart Henderson, “Priestly Duties: Written for Eric Delve 23.5.96” in Limited Edition (Plover books, 1997).

Youth Ministry, the Forgotten Ministry

A strange title, I know. After all, much energy and talk is dedicated to youth ministry in a manner of speaking, but it is a ministry that is about a ghetto.

When we speak of ministry to our congregations, we speak in broad open terms. We do ministry. Ministry is about visiting our parishioners; shut ins, providing pastoral care and support during difficult times, programs and education and making sure to provide a relevant worship experience with good sermons.

And then we do youth ministry, which is somehow separate from the above. It is about games, and making Jesus fun, praise music and being a teenager’s buddy. Maybe we have watch Dogma one too many times, but we treat our youth different then we do anyone else. We dress up our liturgies and beliefs in praise services with the Buddy Christ and more often than not, it is an afterthought.

Seriously, ask yourself how often your priest visits shut ins, elderly and the parish list. Hopefully quite a bit. Then ask yourself how often does your priest make an appointment to visit a teenager and sit down with them in a home visit? Not very likely that they search out the teenager specifically, but will perhaps at best visit a family as a whole. In fact, we go so far as to hire specialized workers, Family and Youth Ministry specialist to talk to this minority and group that we have unintentional other’d. We create special rooms for them away from everyone else, where hopefully they will not disturb the rest of us. And we create events tailored for them and only them. In essence we cut them off from the rest of the congregation, from the body of Christ, and then we wonder why they don’t feel connected or comfortable in their church.

I don’t mean to belittle the ministry the dedicated Family and Youth Ministry specialists provide, but my question is why don’t priest and pastors visit teens? Why do we treat them differently? And why are we surprised when they act differently?
For far too long we have forgotten youth ministry and have asked others to do it. We have delegated an entire area of ministry to others. And then we ask ourselves, where are the youth? Why aren’t they in church?

Seriously??

I mean, have we bothered to develop a relationship and build trust with them like we do their parents and grandparents? Are we there while they face difficult choices in life? Stuff surrounding sex, drugs, bullying, selfhood, becoming an adult, becoming a Christian? Are we walking with them in their journey of faith? Are we taking them as serious as we do Mrs. X, head of the altar guild and lifelong parishioner?

And when they finally come out of those teen years and move out of their parents home are we really surprised that they don’t want to be part of a community of believers? After all what have we done for them? We ghetto-ize them, we trot them out to be cute for us in front of the congregation, we make them servers when old enough, but really spend no time with them and then they leave to go away to university and that is the last we see of them.

Youth ministry, like any ministry, is about relationships. It is about building trust and being there in difficult times to be a friend, a guide, a mentor, and a spiritual advisor. It is about teaching them how to rely upon Jesus Christ, how to pray and to discern where the Holy Spirit is calling them in their lives.

In effect, youth ministry is just ministry and the sooner we stop labelling it as something other, the better off we will be.

The Lost Art of Discernment

The deployment of human resources in a large institution like the Anglican Church of Canada can be extremely difficult. In many ways the church, like any institution, sends new recruits out to smaller postings until they have obtained an adequate amount of experience and seniority. It is at that time that clergy begin the journey back to cities and larger parishes.

In conjunction with this traditional practice is the assumption that clergy are not supposed to stay in one place for too long. Most clergy spend 5-10 years at a posting before being moved along to another parish. I have heard many reasons for this, but none have ever struck me as particular valid or insightful.

In both cases the career track of the clergy seems to take precedence and be more important than an exercise in discernment. In many ways the clergy of the church are on a journey to Tarshish.

“I have done all I can do here, put my programs in place, it is time to move on.”

“I have been here for 5 years (or ten or fifteen for that matter), I need a change of scenery, new challenges and a better parish.”

“I see my time here as temporary. I’m planning to move soon.”

What is common amongst the above example is the amount of “I” statements, which I find to be incredibly ironic since we are called by God to serve. Caught in the western consumer mindset we have forgotten what vocational holiness looks like and instead have centered our call on a career in the church.

Would it not be better to ponder whether God has called us to that little country parish instead of a big city parish, or He wants us to stay in one place for 20 years because we may have done all we want, but we haven’t yet accomplished what God wants from us in that place?

It may not be pretty and it certainly is not easy, but vocational discernment is a necessity for ordained ministry. We go where we are called, whether that is Tarshish or Nineveh.

As a side note, a truly great book on discerning vocational holiness is “Under the Unpredictable Plant”, by Eugene Peterson.

Are fonts a big deal?

When choosing a font for church publications it is important to remember that your choice of font says much about you and your level of professionalism.  There are, after all, fonts appropriate for every job and every situation.

Far too many churches and pastors, although, do not take the time to properly choose fonts for their publications and instead rely upon their personal favorite.

An example of this that occurs far too often is the choice to use Comic Sans in all church publications. Most pastors do not realize that Comic Sans was originally created as a casual script typeface that was modeled on the fonts used in American comic books for several decades.  The purpose of the new font was to replace Times New Roman in the word balloons of cartoon characters in the beta version of Microsoft Bob.

So what? The font is meant to symbolize fun and youthfulness. An impression most pastors want to convey to the world in hopes of luring in new congregants and growing their churches.

Yet, using a font designed to emulate a comic book font does say something about your church. It says we are youthful and childish, which is perfectly appropriate for children’s ministries and Sunday school. But is it really appropriate for a wedding or funeral, or for the bulletin were the sacrament of the Eucharist is about to be celebrated?

What message are we trying to convey to the world when we use Comic Sans for a Eucharistic bulletin? Is the sacrifice of Christ childish and fun? Is it meant to represent playfulness of God in the redemption of the world? I am going to go out on a limb and say, probably not.

Pastors need to take the same time and dedication to font choices that they do for choice of vestments or liturgical space. Each of these choices says something about us, our churches and how we view ministry.

Why is the church dying?

Today I attended Change Camp at Museum London. Change Camp is a un-conference, which means instead of a speaker or a scripted event, the day is allowed to unfold naturally and is only loosely guided by facilitators. In many ways it is a lot like a visioning day, where a church community comes together to envision what they want their community to look like and decide how to get there.

As I sat through the day, participating with the larger community of London to develop and learn to care for its citizens – especially the weakest among us – I was struck by something that I found odd at first and then later by something that upset me.

Let’s start with the odd.

During the day, I looked at all the people that had come together from diverse lives to help their fellow human beings and to shape their community into a healthy and vibrant city. I looked around and it hit me: why am I the ONLY clergy here?

I listened to a group of people that wanted change in their lives and their city. I listened to people that want their neighborhoods to be safe, healthy and prosperous places. These people had given up on their elected officials doing something to improve their city, and they had most certainly given up on the church. So they got together to fix the problem and they did so without us.

Then came the angry.

In the afternoon, I sat with three city councilors as they identified all the necessary parties that would need to come together to discuss development in our city. They identified citizen-led and driven community groups (like the SOHO Community organization), developers and government as key players. Notably absent from the discussion was the church.

Three city councilors, discussing stakeholders in the health and sustainability of their communities and the church didn’t even cross their minds.

Why? Why would it? Clergy, and the church at large, are often visibly absent from political or public meetings for the development of the communities and cities they serve. So why involve the church now? Why ask for their participation?

We stopped participating in any kind of public event long ago. We stopped speaking to the face of power many years ago. We have been totally marginalized. Worse yet, we have done it to ourselves. We have accepted it, shrugged our shoulders, and stayed home to complain about days gone by when we used to have a strong voice in our communities.

Long gone are the days when the clergy would show up to public meetings, give a voice to the marginalized, the weak and the poor. We have retreated so far from public life that now public life has forgotten us. We have ceased to matter and will continue to not matter as long as we pass up opportunities like Change Camp to participate civilly and publically in our communities.

We have retreated so deep into our churches that we have become obsolete.

When we talk about a better world from the pulpit, when we preach social justice and then fail to show at events designed specifically to foster dialogue between citizens, organizations and government to make our communities better, we become nothing less than hypocrites. We lack authenticity.

And that, my friends, is why the church is dying.

LJ-Thank you, Thank You Very Much

I was just compared to Johnny Bravo….I am so entertained. As long as it is not the episode where he gets turned into a hot girl and goes all drag queen, then I am all good 😉

This makes me want to take a poll. What cartoon character best describes me? Or better yet, best describes you? Remember the good ole days when Saturday mornings was 7 hours of none stop cartoons? Aww, I am getting all nostalgic for my sandbox and my Tonka trucks and hours of mindless entertainment with no responsibility. (And yes I know, that was last year for yours truly :P)

~amused

LJ-Untitled

It bugs my shit that after all this time, I can still be defined by past events. 20+ years after the fact and still I find nature has more of a profound effect on my actions than rational thought or reason seems to.

I accepted some of my motivations for some actions coming from the past along time ago. I told myself that since they were leading to moral goodness or that they are societally considered “good” then it was alright. I know see that if I truly wish to break from my past then I have to do it in all aspects of my life or it means nothing.

On a lighter note, I am finding the Republic by Plato to be more of a difficult read than some of his other works. I just keep sitting here going, alright, get to the point, stop playing word games, I get the point. A lot of it seems tedious to me. Discussing it though, I had a great conversation with my best mate in Germany about the book, specifically about book 10 and some of the overriding themes he is driving at.

I only have a few weeks of studying the Republic, so I should enjoy it more. Maybe I am to bias, for I am much more of an Aristilian and find that Plato and neo-platonist bother me. I will be on Augustine in no time, and into Cristian values and ethics shortly so I should stop and appreciate it more I think.

Other than that I am reading this book “How the Scots Invented the Modern World”. Needless to say, it has its use in bothering the hell out of British roommate, other than that, the arguments are quite weak and the logic leading. I will see if it improves, but up to this point, I think the author is a bit of a ummm….wanker??? Would that be a good word for it? I think it fits.

That’s all for now, time to go meditate and enjoy some quiet introspection.